How to be realistic dating a younger guy?
I got this note from a 54-year old lady, “I have always preferred younger men
. I live with a wonderful young man
(29). He makes me laugh all of the time. He is very protective of me and my 15 year old son. We have so much in common. I love him very much. I worry that someday he will grow tired of our relationship
and want to move on to a younger woman
. He says no way! I just tell him that I will cherish the time that we have together and if the time comes that he wants to move on
, I will let him go
. We just take it one day at a time, and right now, really enjoy each other.”
Not all young men dating cougars leave them for women their age
Her attitude is the right one, though, I told her that she should try to get this thought out of her head that he will get tired of the relationship and leave her. Maybe he will, but so can a man of any age, and that is why I would not like her to hold his younger age against him.