Before I give you tips on how to be a stud, I want you to understand a few things:
- It is not the quantity that counts. It is the quality of sex that matters. Women have told me over and over again that even awesome sex once a week is better than lousy sex every night.
- Five times a night does sound a little on the high side and maybe difficult to accomplish every single night, but it is not impossible.
- Not all women like sex so frequently. They run out of energy or desire or they can get sore down there and all women have different libido levels.
- While men enjoy the actual act of lovemaking, women appreciate the emotion of being in love, hugging, cuddling, kissing, conversation, foreplay, and then penetration — not necessarily in this order, of course. Many women tell me that they can orgasm even without penetration.
So how to become the superman in bed?
- A lot of men fail to realize that making love is nothing more than intense physical activity. It is like running a 100 meter race rather than the marathon. In other words, you will need lots of energy for short periods of time. So the point is that if you not already are, get physically very fit. I recommend a healthy diet, a normal weight, and daily exercise for at least one hour. No, I am not suggesting a walk in the park (it is better than nothing, though); I recommend a solid workout that includes running and lifting weights.
- Relax. One of the biggest reasons for poor performance in bed is the anxiety that men have to perform. My advice is that a man needs to be relaxed and cool about it and not set very high standards for himself. The more relaxed he is going to be, the better he will perform. This is true for the bedroom as much as for a speech or job interview.
- Don’t do all the work yourself and make her do some of the work. So let her be on top some time and just relax and enjoy.
- To last longer, there are no magic pills, but my readers have told me that wearing a condom helps. The other trick that readers have used is make sure that she is lubricated very well. If you find after checking with your finger that she is not extremely well lubricated, use a lubricant. You can try saliva or use jelly. Remember the more the friction, the sooner you will ejaculate.
- Slow down or even stop when you are about to ejaculate and when the feeling has passed, resume the motion. That is another way to prolong the pleasure.
- Seducing a woman is all about making her feel special and that can be done through words and actions. Remember that for a girl emotions are more important than anything else, though, I am told diamonds and gifts help. Never criticize her in bed or make her feel conscious (forget about overweight women, even drop dead gorgeous women are often insecure about their bodies) and always make her feel that she is the most beautiful girl you have made love to.