Cate writes, “My boyfriend is a very intimate man and he loves me too touch literally, but sometimes I get a wee bit tired of all of the touching and wish for more action in bed. Do you have any suggestions to get to the more explosive stage in our lovemaking?”
Just tell a guy what to do
There are two ways to make him do what you want him to. One, just tell him directly and honestly. For instance, if you want him to kiss, tell him to. Or if you are ready for sex, tell him that you would like to make love to him. Most normal men appreciate such honest feedback and initiative because they are generally wary of rejection or offending a woman. In any case, most guys are ready for sex all the time.
Give bold hints to him
In case, you are shy or you do not want to come across as the woman-in-charge, then you can be more subtle. For example, if you want him to kiss you on your lips, when you are guys are in an intimate moment, bring your face very close to him as if you are really feeling the love, and then bring the mouth really close to his. Hopefully, unless he is an idiot, he will kiss you. The same applies to asking him to make love to you.