Apparently Joyce wants to become a cougar. She says that she is in her middle age and wants to attract younger guys because she believes that older men come with too much baggage.
If you are trying to attract someone just a few years younger, then, do nothing more than what you would for a man your age or older. Most men would not even notice that you are older than them.
For men much much younger than you, I would suggest that you really need to change your outfit, outlook, and attitude, because this is a new generation of people. The last thing a man wants is to feel that he is dating a woman with whom he has nothing in common and that is why he does expect you to be aware of things that people his age talk about (e.g. music, entertainment, technology, etc.) and make that connection. And of course while you do not have dress like his generation (though I have never failed to understand why a woman with awesome legs cannot dress in a mini skirt as long as those legs last and why don’t we ban teenagers with fatty, cellulite-filled legs to wear minis) but for your age group, you should simply wear stylish clothes.
Adeilda // Oct 25, 2012 at 6:54 pm
Yes, you can meet and fall in love with someone over the inrnteet just as easily or if not easier than meeting someone in everyday life. The inrnteet makes it easy for people who are normally shy in person meeting the opposite sex. I am very shy when it comes to meeting or talking to men in public. The interent makes it easy for me to talk to and be myself without being nervous. As long as you take your time getting to know someone and are always honest, you too can find love, no matter where you met them. Good luck
Anna // Oct 27, 2012 at 1:12 am
As a 47 year old successful, good loikong, decent and fun guy, I tried all sites from E-harmony, Match and the worst, Chemistry99% were fake pictures, or auto-emails. Their point is to make profit of off you. Go out, expand your net, be you and you will meet amazing people. Lazy people try to use a computer. I have had more dates and more fun just say Hi my name is what is yours? and show a big smile. Expand your net, go new places, magic will happen..I promise.