MYNIPPON

Apparently Joyce wants to become a cougar.  She says that she is in her middle age and wants to attract younger guys because she believes that older men come with too much baggage.

If you are trying to attract someone just a few years younger, then, do nothing more than what you would for a man your age or older.  Most men would not even notice that you are older than them.

For men much much younger than you, I would suggest that you really need to change your outfit, outlook, and attitude, because this is a new generation of people.  The last thing a man wants is to feel that he is dating a woman with whom he has nothing in common and that is why he does expect you to be aware of things that people his age talk about (e.g. music, entertainment, technology, etc.) and make that connection.  And of course while you do not have dress like his generation (though I have never failed to understand why a woman with awesome legs cannot dress in a mini skirt as long as those legs last and why don’t we ban teenagers with fatty, cellulite-filled legs to wear minis) but for your age group, you should simply wear stylish clothes.