Rajeev in New Delhi writes, “I had an arranged marriage two years ago and I thought everything would go well. All I expected was a normal marriage but I am so depressed and unhappy with my married life. My wife is always nagging, scolding, and teasing me about my past mistakes in life. I have even become suicidal. What can I do?”
A woman who knowingly and deliberately hurts her husband repeatedly does not deserve to be your wife. We are all human, make mistakes, but we want our spouses to understand us and accept us as we are.
What I suggest is that you sit down with her and give her a final warning and set some ground rules for the marriage. That she will not nag you or scold you or even mention past mistakes. If she does not change her behavior, you will simply divorce her. My friend, be a REAL MAN and instead of getting depressed, take charge of your life and show her that her behavior is unacceptable. Hopefully, either she will change or you will be able to get rid of such a negative person in your life.