Bethany writes, “I am kind of in a relationship but I am not particularly thrilled with my boyfriend. Actually, if I had an option I would dump my BF in a heartbeat. Well, a very cute man has asked me out on a date and he does not know that I am in a relationship. How should I handle this situation?”
I would say that you can simply hint to him during the date about your status. I don’t know what your exact situation is (e.g. if you live together with your BF) but you can say something like “I am currently seeing someone but things are not working out,” or “I have a boyfriend but I have decided to explore other options.” There is no need to apologize or even be apologetic in tone and give any more explanations or details. Most men understand that during the dating phase it is fine to try other people (that is why even married women can date) if they are not happy with their current relationships. And if this man works out, then he knows that you will breakup with your current boyfriend.
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