Kristina writes, “I have a crush on a soon to be married man. I met him once at a conference in New York. He was funny and smart. A group of us were hanging out and I quietly told him I wanted a kiss. He said yes, but later. I followed him to his room and we made out. It was wonderful. After that we acted normal around each other. At the end of the weekend we shared hugs and parted ways. He lives across the country and I won’t see him again until I meet him at another industry event in three months. I really want him and I can’t stop thinking about it. LOL. When I see him again is there anything I can do to seduce him?”
Seducing a man is easy if a woman acts cool
You did what is normally not done but I love it because while it is risky it can yield big rewards. Because you were bold in asking him for a kiss in a conference, not only did you get to kiss him, you made out big time. The worst that could have happened is that he would have said no and thought of you as weird, but who cares about that.
I would say that you should use the same strategy when you meet him next. Tell him exactly what you want. You risk nothing because he already knows that you are a woman who is direct and honest about her feelings. Because he is getting married soon, he maybe deeply and madly in love with his fiancee and refuse your offer but I would not count on that. A lot of men are always open to sex with someone else or he maybe one of those guys who want to have as much as they can before marriage, before finally embracing monogamy.
Anonymous // Mar 11, 2011 at 3:27 pm
i think wat you are trying to do is not just unethical but heartless and cheap.im an engaged guy and id use a woman like you as a dumping site.and i bet dats wat da ada guy is doing.you should find a man thats gonna love n respect you,not see you as just a sex object.pls respect your precious self. Ashley.