MYNIPPON

This fear comes from a wrongly held belief by some people that somehow they are too important or people really give a damn about them.  We live in a world of self-centered, even narcissistic people.  Do you really think that most of your friends truly care what you are wearing or doing?  No, they are too ego-centric and self absorbed in their own outfits, looks, lives, etc., that you hardly matter.

So stop worrying about what others might think, because they don’t (how about you?  how much time do you spend thinking about others and do you really care if someone is one way or the other?).  And if they care, it does not matter what you do or how well, because their opinion is pretty much the same.

So if you are an awesome dancer or a terrible one, most people will spend very little of their emotion on YOU.  So just relax and live for yourself, and not others.  And yeah, on that dance floor, as the cliche says, dance like no one is looking.