Gina writes, “My boyfriend always wants me on top but that is by far not my favorite position. I feel like that position is for a special time and place and with a special person that I’m in a relationship with. Right now I am just too self conscious about it and the man who does this, despite being my boyfriend, has not achieved that special place in my life.”
Regarding the woman on top position, here is a secret: It is a favorite position of most men simply because the woman is now doing most of the work and that allows a man to just enjoy himself. He can also last longer that way. I know a lot of women do not necessarily like this position because the penis does not touch them inside the right way and like you, they get conscious. I am assuming you get conscious because your breasts might move or that he can see your whole body. My suggestion will be that you can keep wearing a baby doll or bra so that your breasts have some support and since you are a bit covered you do not have to feel so self conscious about your body. At the same time, you need to strike a bargain with him that every time he wants you on top, he needs to on top as well.