MYNIPPON

Every single days millions of American men and women are sleeping with someone they are not in a committed relationship with.  It is simply no big deal as we live in a society with extramarital affairs, adultery and cheating.  From time to time, though, we run into interesting cases in which a celebrity is involved and that brings our attention to a scenario that we know is out there.  I am talking about a family friend starting an affair with a married man or woman.  And more precisely how Kristen Stewart, a good friend of Rupert Sanders and his lovely wife Liberty Ross.  In fact, even Stewart’s boyfriend Robert Pattinson knows the couple because it is a small world in Hollywood.

So how did this happen? Why would Kristen Stewart sleep with a much older married man, and definitely not as cute as her boyfriend?  And granted Liberty Ross is not as young as Kristen, but she is still gorgeous.  Like any other affair, these matters are complicated, but one thing is sure: most affairs involve very close people (in the photo above you can see Kristen with Liberty together and that makes it rather sad that she was sleeping with her husband).  The more time we spend with other people, we start to compare these people with our partners and when we come across someone who fulfills a need that our partner, we get tempted.  So as strong as the temptation might be to blame Kristen Stewart for being unfaithful and a heart-breaker, every woman who goes into the arms of another man has a reason, and the most likely culprit is her man.  Maybe he was not paying enough attention to her or he was miserable in bed or was just somehow not providing a fulfilling relationship.  Most people are good and unless they are crazy, don’t think about cheating; it is only a sense of emptiness and loneliness that can drive them to be with someone more fulfilling.

Now, I would not advise women to breakup with all their pretty girl friends or for guys to get rid of their male buddies, but it is something to keep in mind.  It is rare that an affair is carried out with someone totally cut off.  It is much easier to carry on an affair when the contact can simply be masked by regular contact.  Also, it is important for both men and women to be constantly be aware of the needs of their partners and give some thought to asking if they are doing a good job.