Have you wondered, when you see a couple together who are clearly in love, but one partner is much less physically attractive than the other, what they are doing together? What attracted to better looking one to the less physically attractive one? To me this is a perfect example of how sex appeal has so little to do with looks and everything to do with the actual person. Sex appeal is a combination of many factors: charisma, personality, grooming, self confidence, the mind-body connection, style, etc. If you have sex appeal there is something about you that makes persons of the opposite sex hungry to be as close to you as possible. There is an aura to exude that sends the signal to the world that you are attractive, thus building sex appeal.
It’s all in the head: The most important sexual organ, contrary to what we would expect, we have is our minds. The world sees what you choose for it to see, or on a sub-conscious level, what signals you put out. The state of your soul and your mindset can make the difference in whether you have sex appeal or whether you repel the opposite sex.
If you are attracted to yourself, so will be others: Sure dressing nice, smelling nice, having a nice hairdo, all are important factors in attracting the opposite sex. We are a visual society, after all. But don’t ever discount what is on the inside, your view of yourself, for THAT is what sex appeal is truly all about. Remember too that the laws of the universe. We attract to us what we are. Water seeks its own level. So if you want to attract a positive, happy person to you, you first have to BE one.