A relationship with an ex is rarely smooth. After all if the couple
were made for each other then why would they breakup in the first
place (exceptions exist, of course)? The only time that I have seen these relationships work out well when an external factor was the reason for the breakup (e.g., relocation, lack of time to the relationship due to other commitments like education/job, etc.).
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Brooke is one of those women who continues to have
difficulties in her relationship with her ex-boyfriend after they decided to get back together. She was so frustrated that she broke up with him again, but her boyfriend wants to get back with her
one more time. "He is now so interested in a relationship with me that the does not care even if we do not
make
love. While I have told him to move on and let me move on with
my life, he still wants to hang out with me. A part of me still believes he wants me to be in his life again but he
doesn't know how to say it because he is the one who broke up with me. Please help. I want to make the right decision because I don't think if
I like him the way I used to," she asks. (Related:
How to treat your ex) |
I would say "Go with your heart." It seems that your heart is saying that you really do not want to be with him, and I agree with you. It seems that he has always been trouble for you and somehow it seems that
the
chemistry is just not right for both of you. It seems that it
has always been too choppy a relationship and you will get
simply tired with the demands of the relationship rather than enjoy every moment of it.
I am guessing that he might be sorry for doing what he did and he now just doesn't know how to make up for it but a relationship with conditions is not worth it. After all you want a relationship in which he gives his best and you give yours.
Putting conditions like no physical intimacy only means that you just don't trust him, that he has no right to "touch" you, etc. In other words, the energy that you will waste
on him, you might as well spend it on finding another boyfriend.
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