Secrets are for sharing
Of course, with someone you love.....  By Michael Webb

I have got a secret and I'm not sharing. Actually, I have a lot of secrets. There are a lot of things that are only known to my wife, Athena and me. That keeps us close.  I like it when Athena shares things with me that she doesn't with others. It makes me feel special and unique in her eyes. I tell her things that I don't tell my friends or family.  It's not like these are horrible things we have done that we can't tell others. I just want Athena to feel like she knows me better than anyone else. Some people can't keep any secrets. They tell their mom or sister or best friend anything and everything. The instant they get pregnant, win an award or get a raise they share it with other people besides their mate. Sometimes they share it with others before they tell their mate. That doesn't build a blissful relationship; it tears it down.

Make your sweetheart feel special. Always share important things with them first. Let some things remain a secret between the two of you for a little while before letting the rest of the world know all about your personal life.

Consider not sharing some things with your father, sibling or best friend. Have a few things that only you and your sweetheart can share. It will keep you close.  (Related article:  What to do before making love?)

Something to think about...

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About the author:  Michael Webb is a world renowned relationship and romance expert having appeared on over 400 radio and television shows. He is the best-selling author of 500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets.