If
you are
middle-aged or older man, put yourself on the market.
Consider some
plastic surgery,
dye your hair, visit a
cosmetic
dentist,
start a diet, visit the gym more often, spruce up your
wardrobe, and give your apartment/bedroom
a makeover.
Be
cool and confident. Don’t get upset with other people
while you are with her. It’s embarrassing and undermines your
“gentleman” image.
Age
difference is less of an issue even if that whisky you're
drinking is older than she is.
Don't be
quid pro quo. Tell her you are looking for
exciting dialogue and mean it.
Everyone’s
so busy you need three girlfriends to
get two dates a week.
Once you
have one
girlfriend, offers come out of the woodwork.
 If the
conversation is going nowhere, realize it’s her, not you.
So cut your losses.
Don't be
disappointed if she is uninformed on international affairs.
That's what watching only Fox News does to you.
Remember
she has to sell the new man in her life to friends and family.
So give her something to work with.
Assume she
can’t change her
personality, so accept it or move on.
Go young.
Middle aged women tend to bring the disappointments and
frustrations of a
failed previous relationship to the new relationship. If
she is treating you like her
recently divorced ex-husband, forget it.
If she’s
hitting the bottle heavily, “tonight’s the night.” She’s
preparing her excuses. Watch out for the “You
seduced me” routine. She’ll trot this out even if she
spent most of the night on top of you.
Make your
move with
confidence. Don’t fumble with her
underwear;
that’s for adolescents. Just ask if she prefers a
bath
or a shower alone.
Be very
selective. Pick someone you think is way out of your league
and raise your game.
The most
difficult skill as far as a
relationship is concerned is not starting it, but
ending it
without getting a knife in your back (just kidding).
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