The perfect woman trap
She may not exist; so get real and find a real woman.....By Don Diebel

I want to warn you about falling into the trap of forming an image in your mind of the perfect woman for you.

For example, you're only attracted to tall blondes with long hair, blue eyes, and a perfect body. Your mind and eyes are closed to all other women who don't fit your "perfect mate" image. You block them out.  

This is really sad if you adopt this philosophy of only being attracted to certain types of women. You will bypass so many opportunities to meet single women that could be just perfect for you. First of all, it's not fair to judge a person on how they look on the outside anyway. Their inner beauty is what counts. Tell me, is it worth it having a girlfriend with looks that could kill and be a "bitch from hell" on the inside. I can't begin to tell you how many women I've dated like this.

While we are on the subject of looks, don't fall into the trap of only limiting yourself to dating only beautiful single women. Trust me, women that seem to be average-looking when first meeting them can become beautiful to you once you get to know them. What they don't have in looks they make up with their good personality, warm heart, ability to please you, enthusiasm for life, affections, willingness to do anything to please you, etc.

From my experience of dating a lot of model types of women, I can tell you that a lot of them were self-centered, obsessed with their looks, used to getting their way, and spoiled rotten. Also, they were very high maintenance. They were used to dining in fancy restaurants, having men buy them expensive gifts, going on expensive trips out-of-town, etc.

In other words they had to be constantly wined and dined to make a good impression on them. So take it from me, dating an extremely beautiful single woman can turn out to not be all that great. But, you still can get lucky sometimes and meet a lovely woman who is beautiful on the outside as well as on the inside.  

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About the author:  Don Diebel is Americas #1 singles expert. If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website.