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The
perfect woman trap
She
may not exist; so get real and find a real woman
By
Don Diebel
I
want to warn you about falling into the trap of forming
an image in your mind of the perfect woman for you.
For
example, you're only attracted to tall blondes with long
hair, blue eyes, and a perfect
body. Your mind and eyes
are closed to all other women who don't fit your
"perfect mate" image. You block them out.
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This
is really sad if you adopt this philosophy of only being
attracted to certain types of women. You will bypass so
many opportunities to meet single women that could be
just perfect for you.
First
of all, it's not fair to judge a person on how they look
on the outside anyway. Their inner beauty is what
counts. Tell me, is it worth it having a girlfriend with
looks that could kill and be a "bitch from
hell" on the inside. I can't begin to tell you how
many women I've dated like this.
While
we are on the subject of looks, don't fall into the trap
of only limiting yourself to dating only beautiful
single women. Trust me, women that seem to be
average-looking when first meeting them can become
beautiful to you once you get to know them. What they
don't have in looks they make up with their good
personality, warm heart, ability to please
you,
enthusiasm for life, affections, willingness to do
anything to please you, etc.
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 From
my experience of dating a lot of model types of women, I
can tell you that a lot of them were self-centered,
obsessed with their looks, used to getting their way,
and spoiled rotten. Also, they were very high
maintenance. They were used to dining in fancy
restaurants, having men buy them expensive
gifts, going
on expensive trips
out-of-town, etc.
In
other words they had to be constantly wined and dined to
make a good impression on them. So take it from me,
dating an extremely beautiful single woman can turn out
to not be all that great. But, you still can get lucky
sometimes and meet a lovely woman who is beautiful on
the outside as well as on the inside.
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About
the author:
Don Diebel is Americas #1 singles expert. If you
would like more free dating tips on how to successfully
meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please
visit his website.
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