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How
to flirt by touching?
Send
right signals to your date by flirting
By Sebastian
Steele
Another
person's touch is the most soothing form of contact that
your body will even encounter even when it makes you
nervous or uncomfortable.
You love the feel of a woman's touch. This is
commonly referred to as "Kino".
This works both ways. A woman loves a man's touch
(if done properly), and YOU can learn how to use
touching to your advantage to get the women that you
want!
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 Nothing
sends across the message "I'm attracted to
you" stronger than when a woman touches you
repeatedly during conversation. It is the oldest and most powerful flirting
technique that the world has ever seen. It makes you
immediately warm up to her, get a very good feeling
about her, and raises your interest in her
significantly. Doesn't
it? But why does it have this effect on you? How can you go
from being slightly
interested in a woman to being just
shy of infatuated with her after a series of light
touches and rubs?
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How to flirt with a colleague?)
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You
see, our minds are naturally programmed to respond to
human touch in a positive way, which makes it a huge
influence on who we are attracted to even more so than
what we see, hear, or smell. That means that by simply
touching a woman correctly you can make her more
attracted to you than you could ever do with your
looks, your words, and your
cologne... combined! Because of the structure of today’s society, many of us are
not as accustomed to touching as we should be, so much
so that when someone we do not now very well DOES touch
us, it comes as a surprise – a
surprise that we won't
soon forget.
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flirting with me)
Can
you remember when a woman you had recently met was
flirting with you by touch? I'm sure you can.
She made a lasting impression on you; did she
not? Just the fact that you still remember this woman
demonstrates just how powerful touching can really be!
Now wouldn't you like to be able to have that
same effect on the woman that you desire? The ability to
make a first impression on her that is so strong that
she will never forget about you? Damn right you would!
Here
are a few tips on how to touch someone to create the
desired effect without offending:
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Watch
for other body and verbal gestures that indicate
that she is interested in you.
If
someone is trying to run away from you, is not
comfortable with you being around, is ignoring you
or is giving any other signals of lack of interest
in you –
 touch is the last thing you want to do.
Instead, either move on or try other ways to
charm her.
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Keep
the touch as non-threatening as possible.
For instance a light touch on the arm or the
shoulder is the maximum that you should try the
first time.
If
you are walking, you might hold her hand or put your
arm around her for a fraction of a second, when for
example, she does not see a coming car or there is
something nasty on the road and is she is about to
step on it.
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Watch
carefully for a reaction.
If you receive a negative response to touch
to indicate that she did not appreciate it, do not
touch again.
Also,
if you receive a positive response, it does not mean
that you are now free to grope her whole body.
In fact you should simply stay away from
touching her again, except maybe another casual
touch after some time has lapsed.
You
will, thus,
build a relationship based on trust and
you will hopefully get a chance to see her again,
when your relationship will reach to the next level.
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In
almost all cases, it is safer to let the woman
control the level of touching.
Let her make the first move in all cases and
you will then develop a stronger bond.
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About
the author
Sebastian
Steele is the author of a seduction guide for men
"Simple Seduction". |
