A house in the suburbs, a drop-dead gorgeous Korean-American wife, and two beautiful daughters. I could not have asked for more. I know the world is full of problems but for people like me that is just news. No wonder for millions of people like me, everything is generally so predictable. The Fourth of July celebration with barbeques, Thanksgiving family get-togethers, the Christmas shopping season, and everything else that we can count upon to happen with a very high degree of certainty in our lives. While all this makes our lives so comfortable, it also makes our lives dull in some ways.

It so turns out that my life was going to get a 25,000-volt shock and nothing was going to be the same for me again. It was unpredictable, exciting, and incredible. It all started when my wife befriended a Latina, divorced and childless, Juanita, at her work. As is pretty common in our small town, Juanita came to our home fairly often and I have to admit that she is very attractive. As I have an Asian wife, I am naturally attracted to other non-Caucasian women. However, this was one of those attractions that all married men feel but do not think about it too seriously. For us, it is just  a feast for the eyes, but then we are expected to go on with our lives.

Juanita was different though. I see attractive women all the time in public and while I admire their beauty; that is where it ends. There have been occasions when I would run into a pretty woman either in public or for example in my office or while visiting a large city and we would smile at each other or even exchange a few pleasantries. Like most men, I have often dreamed, not in any serious way, but just for the fun of it, about how a particular woman behaves in bed or how she would look without clothes (or what women call as 'undressing with the eyes'). This is the way most men think. If they see a woman with an attractive figure, they immediately try to create a mental image of her without clothes. 

Juantia did generate all of these feelings in me whenever she was around but her eyes made me feel as if she was pointing a laser beam into my heart somehow she reminded me of Carolina Bacardi. When she would look at me without even talking to me, just the eye contact made me feel as if she was on top of me - totally in control. I felt like her slave. I would get so nervous that I would immediately take my eyes away and go play with the kids or pretend as if I was busy with something else.

Juanita was very confident. The more I tried to avoid her in these uncomfortable moments, the more she realized that I wanted her in some way and she could have me. I did not think about her much and tried to tell myself that she was just a temptress with a lot of energy. After all, she was my wife's good friend and who knows what secrets they shared with each other. I had a good and open relationship with my wife but she would not like the idea of discussing intentions of Juanita or any other woman. In fact I was afraid that even if I discussed my suspicions about Juanita with my wife, she would not only throw her out of the house but I would also get into a lot of trouble for no reason. After all, I told myself, she was just looking at me and I have to confess that just being around her gave me tremendous pleasure.

In a couple of months, Juanita left my wife's company to take up another job, but of course, she knew my wife's schedule. In the past she had come to our house sometimes when my wife was not around to drop something off for my wife or to carpool with her. Thus, we were all used to seeing her in our house and my wife would not think much about her being present in the house when she was not around. Now Juanita started coming by our home when she knew my wife wouldn't be home. (Related:  Korean beauty Ursula Mayes)

While she always dressed like most Latinas - stylish and sexy, she would dress even more provocatively when she would come during my wife's absence. To my utter disbelief, she always had a valid and creative reason not only to come by but also to be able to spend a great deal of time at our house when I was alone. For example, at one time she came saying that she had pulled her back muscle and it hurt so bad that she could not move. As I helped her lie down on the bed, I had no choice but to give her a back massage (did I have a choice not to help someone with so much pain?). On numerous occasions, her washing machine would break down and she would come to do her laundry at our house, and of course, that meant that she would spend hours just chatting with me.

With my wife not being around during these instances, we got a lot more chance to just be with each other and I got to know her as a woman. She would always be very confident and in control and she did not seem all that intimidating anymore. When my wife was around I would always find an excuse not to be around too long. But when it was just Juanita and I, I had to spend every minute with her or at least that is how she organized the visit. She also made sure that she was physically next to me - she would try to act like my assistant as I fiddled with the engine of her car (instead of going to the mechanic she always wanted my opinion first on car problems) or behave like my secretary when I took care of some paperwork for her (she pretended as if she knew nothing about taxes or any other paperwork). In fact she would be so close to me that I could smell her body or touch her accidentally or feel her body heat.

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