 Nature consists of plants, flowers, animals of all types, rivers, fish, etc. and they are all so different but beautiful in their own unique ways. You may appreciate
keeping a dog instead of a cat but that does not mean dogs are better than cats. We all have different tastes, likes, and dislikes. The differences are what make the picture even more interesting and good to look at. Moreover, to make a fruit salad you need various fruits.
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So what does this mean? It means variety is the spice of life. So if a man just does not like you or want you any more it does not mean that you should panic and try to change yourself for his sake.
Or in other words, you need to lead a spiritual life that goes
beyond the superficial. It simply means it won’t work and you are going nowhere; instead of him wasting your time,
being unfaithful to you better he ends it. Painful as it may sound to be rejected, but I think it’s the best way. This applies to men too. I have read horrible stories where a man shot his ex-girlfriend on her wedding day just because he refused to accept that she didn’t want him anymore and was in love with somebody else. I watched another shocker on TV where a man poured acid on a woman who had rejected his advances. So he said to himself, if I can’t have her, no one else can, so I will deform here beautiful face. Today the woman is scared. (Related
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Cruise, Scientology, and depression)Learn to release people. Otherwise, you may spend your life stalking them and then try to destroy them. Yes! It’s that serious. Few, unfortunately are able to
handle rejection and
loneliness with the maturity it deserves. When you care about somebody, sometimes you have got to let him or her go. Yes, even if it means remaining alone. If you should ever want to have a
makeover let that decision come out of a personal conviction. Never should you live a life to ‘worship’ another human being. It’s not easy to totally please a ‘man’ otherwise you will end up in
bondage.
There is nothing wrong with
eating a proper diet, or
putting on makeup, etc. unless your motive is wrong. Anything done with a wrong motive will wreck your life and chances are that you will do it in excess and destroy yourself completely and the person you are doing it for may even mock you more. One thing I know is that if you work towards something because of another person, your efforts can ‘die’ when that person you are doing it for disappoints you or leaves you prematurely. You will feel so rejected and say after all that I did for him to make myself good enough for him. You may stop taking a bath, stop doing your hair, and start to
fall into depression.
Woman, you are
beautiful, just the way you are. I think the greatest beauty is the one found in the heart
(or the spiritual beauty) because it never fades and I think we should work more at it but there should also be a balance between the inside and the outside.
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to make a new beginning?) What is the point of being good-looking and well polished outside when all that ever comes out of you is abusive talk and pride. Such people always end up lonely, rejected, and destroyed, and yet, they wonder why? If you have a good ‘spirit’ within you it will shine forth and I believe out of that you can
defeat loneliness and rejection and good people will flow into you life.
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