Lingerie for men is still a new idea and not only men but even many women are getting used to it. While on one hand our research shows that women are increasingly saying that men can't just walk into the bed wearing some ugly
boxers and hope that they will have the time of their life because they are men and are doing a great favor to the women by their mere presence, on the other hand, many women are somewhat skeptical of the trend (driven largely by
metrosexuals).
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Let us look at Gabriel's situation. He says, "I've been dressing in attractive clothing and
lingerie for some time and I'm otherwise a regular heterosexual guy but it really bothers me that a lot of girls think that something is wrong with me and I am not a man enough or maybe I am even feminine. It makes me feel so out of place at times. I actually lost a date with a girl because she thought I was
gay. But when I travel to Europe or Japan I felt more understood
about what I like to wear because the guys wear things that I like and the stores cater to that and there are magazines about the latest fashions and so much diversity in what to wear. I felt more in place over there. I just wish more girls would be more understanding."
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 We have received dozens of such emails and it is understandable why this is happening. A large number of women are still ignorant of this trend and need to be educated. The responsibility falls on the media (and
MYNIPPON is doing its part by emphasizing the role that
lingerie plays in the lives of
men) and on the men who have embraced fine
lingerie. The society in America (and many other countries) has to understand that men can be
real men and still wear attractive
lingerie. Just because they are real men they do not need to be wear only ugly $2 boxers from Wal-Mart.
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Advice for men who like to wear attractive lingerie
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Pick the occasion carefully. If you think you are going to scare a
woman, well wait for a while and educate her first. Then you can share your collection with her.
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Watch your behavior. Just act normal as a man would do. No sensible woman would judge if you are real man based on your
lingerie
alone.
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Show class and taste in other items of clothing too. If you are wearing a cheap
Tee and shabby jeans but with fine lingerie, you are sending a wrong and confusing message. On the other hand when your lingerie is coordinated with the overall outfit, you are likely to create an impression that you are a man with taste in your style.
Advice for women who live in the Dark Ages
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Wake up. Lingerie is not just for women any more. Men are ready to wear what they like. Just because they wear good lingerie, they are neither feminine nor weird.
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Enjoy the show. Men have always appreciated a
woman's lingerie and you should do the same.
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If still in doubt, have a chat with the man. Do not close your mind. The world is an exciting place
now.
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