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This scenario took
place every day for about a week, until one day, I was speaking
with an American lady with a child. My "park friend" came by
like clockwork and the American lady was able to communicate
with her using
facial expressions and gestures. We learned that the this lady was a chemist who was exploring properties from certain botanical plants which were grown in the park's greenhouse. Because she was so happy to find an interpreter of sorts, she let it be known quite clearly that she wanted to date me very
much. Since I am so attracted to women who have an accent (after all I am attracted to people by their voice), I immediately consented to a date.
At that time, I was only able to find unhealthy relationships for myself because that was all I believed I deserved because of my impairment. It doesn't matter who
you are, you send the signals which you truly believe about yourself. And everyone else is quite good at picking up on those signals.
On the
day of the date, she came to pick me up and drove me to her apartment in downtown Los Angeles. She cooked a delicious fusion meal which I truly enjoyed. After the meal, we listened to classical music and she played a few songs for me on her piano. When she came to drop me at my house, we
kissed passionately for several minutes.
It has been truly a remarkable relationship and I no longer feel that the fact that I am visually impaired means that I am not capable of exploring all other human emotions. She has truly
ignited the passions inside me, and therefore, I am finally ready to follow my true passion and attraction. We are getting married early next year."
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