| Kareena
writes, "I have pretty
low self
esteem because of my small breasts. Your website has
made me feel more
proud
about my small chest (I am a 34 A) but sometimes, I
still feel myself being
insecure when I am around my friends. I mean, I
don't really think that my
body is
well proportioned. I'm
small up top, but my
hips are pretty wide and I am known for having a
pretty
big butt. My friends sometimes say I resemble a "Bratz
Doll" because of the way my body is. I mean,
I like my body because
I have curves, but I don't like the fact I am small
on top. I've also been
rejected because of my breasts, but then guys
look at my butt, and they all of a sudden wanna date
me. I really don't understand
guys and
the emphasis they put on bust. My
mom also
had big breasts when she was 15, and she puts me
down and says that I should have them too."
No woman is perfect
If we start to
look at our bodies, unless you are
Halle Berry or
Angelina
Jolie, there will always be something bad that you
can find. Trust me, all those
women that have large breasts probably hate
something else about their bodies and might even be
jealous of your
big butt.
Let me also tell you that
not all
guys are obsessed with breasts. There are
men that like butts or something else on the body
(yep, I hear from men who
pick
girls based on their
hair or
smile or education or
talents in music or whatever else that they
find attractive). I am also sorry to hear that your
mother
is
obsessed with breast size and rather than helping
you, she
puts you down.
Play with what you have
My advice would be to
be proud of your assets and
show them off by
emphasizing them. Yes, the worst thing you can do is to
wear baggy pants. I would say that like the
busty girls that like to
show their cleavage, you should proudly
show your curves and de-emphasize your chest. |