Sex with Japanese women
Recently I have spending a lot of time talking to people who have insights into Japanese and gaijin relationships. While my personal experience confirms this, but others disagree, I have had some of the most passionate relationships with Japanese women. Obviously, I did not hesitate to proclaim that Japanese girls were the best performers in bed.
That may be so, but according to some new feedback that I am receiving it is simply that the Japanese women are merely trying to be polite and courteous. They are taught not to say no (and that is true for most Japanese situations, including business). Additionally, the women fully realize that in order to get a man’s attention and love, they have to please him in bed.
One woman that I spoke to says that “Maybe Japanese women think it is dirty to have sex in the depth of their heart. And Platonic love is the ideal for them.” However, “They just don’t want to spend the night alone or be lonely. They need the warmth and feeling that they are protected by men.”
In addition, I think girls’ manga have influenced Japanese women’s view of love. The characters of girls’ manga love deeply each other but never have sex (unlike the Harlequin romance books in the US). While that is changing somewhat and that may be one reason why many Japanese ladies now are reading boys-love manga that often feature Japanese gay characters.
So what does it all mean?
Japanese society is very complex and Japanese couples can spend their whole lives living like just good friends. That is why foreigners might see a totally different set of personality because Japanese people can try something that they typically wouldn’t do with a fellow native.
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