My girlfriend cannot have an orgasm
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Justin writes, “Every time my girlfriend and I make love, she hardly ever reaches climax. Is this because of me or her? We always have the intent of pleasing each other; she just can not seem to reach climax? Please help.”
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Millions of women fail to reach orgasm and the reasons are complex. It could be you, or her, or even both. Here are a few things to think about?
- Is she depressed, worried, or suffers from anxiety? Negative emotions like this can do havoc to libido.
- Are you two genuinely in love? If you are not emotionally bonded with each other, orgasm can be difficult.
- Do you know her body well? What are her most sensitive parts? Do you know where her clitoris and Gspot are? If you don’t you will need to explore her body more so that you can pay more attention to these parts.
- Do you schedule at least 15-20 minutes to foreplay? Foreplay is what prepares a woman for orgasm. The penetration is what triggers it.
- Do you last long enough inside her? If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you will not be hard for long enough. Or do you think you might be suffering from erectile dysfunction? Women take longer to orgasm than a man.
- What position do you use? Have you tried more than one position? Sometimes simply changing angles and places can do wonders. Have you heard of kamasutra asanas?
- Is she having difficulty climaxing only with you or has she never experienced an orgasm before (even with another man, woman, or sex toy)? Actually, a good way to make her orgasm is that you use a toy that she likes so that you can help her achieve an orgasm without the pressure of performing within a short time. It will help both of you learn more about her body and what parts are more sensitive.
- Has she had a normal sex life before? Does she have a history of abuse or violence? In that case, she might need professional help.
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