Is my boyfriend a jerk?
Lisa writes, “I met a guy and I think he was my first love (I did not tell him that, though). After a while he did not want to see me any more. He said I was not good in bed but it is my first time and I did not know what to do. Is it he did not like me or was he only after sex? Once I meet a guy I always trust my heart to tell me if he is right or wrong, but now I really want to learn how do I get to know if a guy is serious or if he is a jerk. Please help.”
It is very clear that if a man judges a woman based on how she is in bed (especially when sex for the first time is always a little difficult even if for an experienced couple) then he is not the man you want to spend the rest of life with. Yes, it seems that for him a woman is only meant for sex. It is good that he ended the relationship with you because you can now find someone who loves you as a woman and not as an object.
I also think you have the right way to assess a guy. Always trust what your heart is telling you.
To find out if he is a jerk or or a real man, look at what he wants from you. If all he wants is sex or your money or always criticizes you or does not treat you as a lady with respect or tries to manipulate you in any way, chances are that he is a jerk and wants to make your life difficult. No need to spend any more time with him.
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