Jon is one of those people who has been in a relationship with Alice for six years but out of that they have spent four years in a long-distance relationship when he went to study inFrance. “Now it seems that we have lost the spark and she is frustrated about it. We see each other about once a month because we are still in different states. My problem is that I am always tired after work and always stressed out that I need to sleep early for work the next day. What can we do to put our relationship on a romantic track?” he asks.
You are not alone. Many people write to use telling us how they do not have enough energy and time for bedroom fun. So what can you do? There is no easy way out. You will have to find time for her (and also for yourself). Take an extra day off when you visit to really spend time with her to bond both emotionally and physically. Every couple of months, plan a romantic getaway to a nearby destiation (so that you do not spend too much time driving or flying). Alternatively you can ask her to visit you.
And then who said that you can be intimate only during the night. Many couples report very satisfactory results when they do it in the morning or during day time.
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