Sex during pregnancy

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June 6, 2008

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Pic of a man touching the belly of his pregnant wife
Amber is six months pregnant. She writes, “My husband of two years loves sex but it’s so hard for me to get comfortable. How do I keep him satisfied in the bedroom without him getting bored with me? How do I be sexy for him? Please help me.”

You are doing the right thing. While it is inexcusable, it is a sad reality of life that most men drift away from the mother of their child around the time that she is pregnant or after childbirth she is too busy and tired to pay much attention to him and maybe struggling to lose her pregnancy pounds. If you can make sure that this does not happen to your husband, hopefully, you can have a great family.

Here are my thoughts:

    If you haven’t already done so, try different positions and settle on those that are more comfortable for you both. Kamasutra has asanas for every couple.
    It is also a great time to discover more about your husband. There is a side of men that many wives do not know of because they assume that all he is likes is normal sexual intercourse. You will be surprised to know that there is more to a man than that. Men (and women too) have all kinds of things that they like to do but are often too afraid or shy to mention it to their partners for the fear of being ridiculed or rejected.
    So ask him what else does he like. It could be physical things like oral sex or mutual masturbation or watching porn together or doing some role play or it could be something entirely different. Think what you are comfortable doing and do it (if you think that you do not feel comfortable doing something it is OK to say no but do so without passing judgment or trying to make him feel that something is wrong with him) — many couples find that talking about these hidden desires brings them even closer and can help them reach orgasm without penetration.
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