Marlene writes, “I am a 39 years old, married, but secretly having an affair with a 23 year old single guy for 2 yrs now. I am not happy with my husband of 10 years. It was only a whirlwind romance that ended up with marriage. I think my soulmate is my younger boyfriend now. What should I do?”
Even if he is the worst man on the planet, it is still not right to mislead him into believing that you guys are in love and have a married life. If the marriage is practically over for you, it is best to tell him so.