How to please my man if I am fat?
Julia writes, “I was told by my husband that I am too fat to please him. What can I do to make things better? I am fat, lazy and do not plan on going on a diet any time soon.”
I think you probably know one of the secrets of men that once they get turned on they are not thinking with their head or looking with their eyes; all they want to do to is to have an orgasm. So the best thing to do is to keep the lights low or try darkness while having sex. Trust me, he wouldn’t even notice your body.
If the lights will be on or you will make love during day time, for instance, try to wear the right lingerie. That way you show what is great and hide what is not so great.
I am hoping that he is not using your being fat as an excuse to divorce you or to start an affair. Then he is simply looking to blame you by finding faults with you.
Finally, I know that you are not looking to change but losing weight has some great health benefits too and I would strongly suggest that you reconsider your firm attitude not to do anything about your weight.
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