My boyfriend is missing
Subsequent to my previous article my husband is missing, I heard from Rene whose boyfriend went to Europe on a business trip and she has not heard from him in over a month. She writes, “He deals in commercial real estate and he travels often. He has been gone now for 6 months and I usually will hear from him every day on a constant basis. Does this mean I just need to move on and let go and accept that he just doesn’t want to call and doesn’t want the relationship anymore? I know deep in my heart there’s a lot of love and respect for me; at this point I don’t know whether to be concerned about his well being or be angry that he has not contacted me. Could you please give me your honest advice? His apartment lease did expire just before he left so he really does not have any strong ties to this place right now.”
Based on what you have told me (and I am assuming that there is no problem in your relationship and things were normal the last time you two spoke), the first thing I would like you to do is to find out if he is OK. If he is a US citizen, I would suggest that you contact the local police, the American embassy in the country in which he was last known to have been, and the Office of Overseas Citizen Services in the State Department’s Bureau of Consular Affairs (1-888-407-4747) to let them know that he is missing. If you happen to know his family members or friends (particularly if he is not an American), contact them immediately to find out what they know. At this point I will give him the benefit of doubt that something has gone terribly wrong. There is a remote possibility that he found a gorgeous European girl and has no intention of getting back with you but I would be very surprised if he does not want to formally breakup with you.
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