Reena writes, “I lost my sex drive and now it is getting worse because I don’t even think about sex for months until my husband says something. So what do you think I should do to get myself stimulated? I have tried everything, even doctors.”
Do you know the reason why you lost your sex drive? What could have caused it? When did you feel that you no longer feel like having sex? Did something trigger it? Are you still in love with your husband or has something changed in him or your relationship that you are no longer sexually attracted to him?
Unless you deal with these issues, nothing can improve your libido. Yes, there are medical reasons that desire may go away (and that is not the case for you because the doctors would have caught it) but it seems that you no longer love the man and hence feel no desire for intimacy.