I like a girl in my school but she shows no interest
Carson writes, “I’m 14 and I like this girl but she doesn’t seem interested in me and I’m afraid/shy to talk to her. I have never talked to her before and she is one year younger than me. Do you have any suggestions?”
I think the reason that she may not seem interested is that she is in a different class than you and at this age it is very hard for everyone to be sociable. The way you are shy and afraid to talk to her, she might be in the same situation. Plus, sorry to be harsh, but unless you have something very compelling (talent, looks, sports ability, etc.) that will make you very popular and attractive, she wouldn’t even know that you exist.
So this is what you should do. Find out more about her and then figure out how you can be closer to her more often. I don’t know the exact situation, but here is an example. For instance, if she takes piano lessons, maybe you should too. That way she and you can be closer together and get a chance to show her that you are a nice guy and are interested in her. And if you are good at anything, make sure that you get better at him and start tooting your horn about it.
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