Matthew writes, “In response to your reader who enjoys smelling women’s hair armpits, I must confess that I am in the same boat. As a matter of fact in the past I shared with one of my friends about my habit of smelling my partner’s body odor, especially around her armpits, prior to and during sexual activity, and he told me that I am a weird guy and should go see the doctor. Your explanation gives me a feeling of relief and confidence that I am a normal man and what I am doing is natural. Smelling woman’s body odor makes me feel fresh and healthy. And I am not surprised by the fact that my wife also shows the same desire. Men and women were created that way to attract one another. I think natural pheromones should be tapped rather than avoided.”
In my opinion, as long as both partners like it, nothing is bad when it comes to sex. So this friend of yours has right to his choices but calling you weird is plain wrong. What would he think if you told him that he was weird because he only had missionary position?
I am happy for you that you have found a partner that can indulge your wish. Many men enjoy not only the armpits but also other parts of the body where sweat and body fluids accumulate. Many men have written to me talking about how they smell a woman’s used underwear because it accumulates the body fluids.
So go ahead and enjoy your passion and thank your wife for being cooperative, understanding, and sharing the same preference.