My boyfriend has stopped sex with me
Marianne writes, “My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and the sex has disappeared completely. It’s like he doesn’t want it any more and I constantly have to ask for it. I’ve had people tell me he’s not faithful and we were in a long distance relationship for a month. I don’t know what’s going on. He says he is tired from working all day but even on his days off I still get no attention. I am at a loss at what to do. He does not even touch me for days. What should I do?”
When a man does not have lots of sex within the first year of his relationship, something is terribly wrong. I could have understood if you two had been together for 10 years but so early into the relationship is definitely troubling.
Now before we jump to conclusions, I want you to make sure that loss in interest in sex is not due to a medical condition, or high level of depression or stress, or problems with money or job (working too long or having a nasty boss). All these things can make the libido disappear or go down significantly. You should investigate and/or ask him if those are not the reasons. Before you start fighting with him or accuse him of infidelity or take any other action, it is best to rule out these causes.
If everything is normal and nothing has changed, then generally it means that either he has lost interest in you, does not love you, and is planning to leave you. Yes, there is a possibility that he loves someone else.
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