Moaning during sex
Martin writes, “I would like to consult you regarding my habit of moaning during sex. My moaning takes place from the time I foreplay and reaches its peak just before I climax. And I have to admit it is very loud. My ex-wife never complained about my moaning, but my girlfriend kind of dislikes my moaning even though she never tells me so. My question is how can I solve this problem? Should I ask my girlfriend to accept the fact that I was born that way and cannot stop moaning, or should I control myself not to moan, which is very very difficult for me to do. Or is there any other way?”
First of all, it is not a problem (as long as others do not hear the noise). Many men and women moan while making love and it is natural for the body to react that way when it is experiencing pleasure (or pain, as anyone can testify what happens when we experience extreme pain).
You say that your girlfriend is not complaining and that simply means that there is nothing to worry (if she absolutely hated it you would know by now). She has accepted you as you are and that is very important in any successful relationship — when a partner realizes that he or she will never like everything about the partner but that is a compromise one needs to make. She is a good woman because she knows that if she asks you to stop moaning, obviously, you are not going to enjoy it and will be unsatisfied. So just be what you are but respect her preferences too because that is equally important.
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