Is my boyfriend gay?
In the movie “The Last Days of Disco,” Christopher Eigeman plays the role of Des, a floor manager at the disco, who dumps women by telling that he just found out that he was gay. While it is is a fact that many gay men live normal, heterosexual lives (Evangelical priest Ted Haggard is a classic example), some men pretend to be gay to get out of a sticky situation.
That is exactly what is happening to Jenny whose ex-boyfriend and father of her child is sending her signals that he likes men more than women. “He now spends all his time with another man who lives with him. He preferred to go on holiday with him instead of me (and told me I wasn’t welcome under any circumstances to join them). They bought a boat together last year and he admits he’ll always feel closer to him than me. My question is, Can you be emotionally gay, but not physically. The intimacy of a man is obviously very important to him. He said if i didn’t like it, I could go elsewhere. Please could you give me your thoughts on this,” she writes.
It is clear that he has gay tendencies based on what you are describing. Remember that men do not have heterosexual relationships with all women they like (you just don’t like certain women to make love to them but can still be great friends with them), they can have similar homosexual relationships too. I also think that he may be using this relationship to make you go away like the character Des in the movie. More importantly though, he is sending a message to you that he is not interested in a relationship with you and you have to take that into account as you make up your mind about your future with him.
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