I want to find out if my married ex girlfriend wants an affair
Peter, a happily married man has revived his passion for an old flame, who is also now happily married too. Fate has brought the two couples together and they spend a lot of time together. Apart from having a good time at parties or going out or vacationing together, he wants to make their relationship more intimate. Since they are both married and have put their past behind them, Peter thinks that she is hiding her feelings for him which might still be alive. “I do not want to destroy my or her marriage but it is painful to be close to her so often and not even be able to look without raising suspicion. I just want to have an affair with her that hurts no one but makes both of us happy. I don’t know if she feels the same way and I am reluctant to ask her because I am afraid that she might breakup with me completely if she feels that I have something more on my mind. I am attaching an online chat transcript with her last night and I want you to tell me if she feels as strongly as I do?” he asks.
As I read through the transcript, I think she is pleasant, polite, maybe a bit shy, but definitely looking for
something more. I say that because for a married woman to chat with someone so freely means that she feels comfortable with you, trusts you that you will not go and tell the whole world about it, and is probably looking for more attention from you. That comment about you not looking at her enough means that she wants you to do that and probably comment more on her outfits.
It is also clear that she is conscious about the marital status of both of you and to me it is not clear that you have hinted to her that your interest in her is still more than just helping her with her chores when your families are hanging out together. I think you should try to talk to her more often not just about socializing. Maybe you will never be able to make love to her, considering all the constraints, but she could be a good romantic entertainment for you.
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