Should I have a relationship with a promiscuous woman?
Raymond writes, “I saw this married woman at an office party. Against the advice of all those experts who suggest that we should behave at office parties but we talked, started to dance, and before I knew it, I started to kiss her. On the way to her house we stopped the car and started to make out. Then the following week she had a party at her house and she invited me. She told me that she invited me because she wanted me to see that she had a family. She told me that if I still wanted to continue with her it would be only casual sex because I was not single either. She seemed so innocent and told me, ‘Don’t do it because you don’t want your wife to do the same.’ It seemed that this was her first time cheating. It made feel weird but good that I was the first man whom she found more attractive than her hubby. However, at work people told me that she been with other men too. It is just too hard to believe. I don’t want to mess with someone who is messing with a lot of guys. When I talked to her she doesn’t seem that kind of person but I know that women are tricky. I just don’t know who to believe. I find her attractive and I would love to be with her some times but if she is so promiscuous I am not sure. What do I do?”
I like to believe that a person who has cheated once is more likely to cheat again. Yes, there will always be a first time, but it is a fair to assume that a married woman who is so eager to cheat has already cheated before and will do it again. Obviously, no woman likes to be known as a whore and that is why she will do what she can to appear as if you are her first lover. Yes, I know people like to gossip and not everything you hear in the office is true, but with this woman, it is not a bad idea to consider that she is a woman with addiction to cheating.
Having said that, what is it that you want from her. Aren’t you already in a relationship and you both know that this is nothing but a fling? What does it matter if you are her first and exclusive lover (only a spouse can be that)? If you are attracted to her, will enjoy sex with her, and are comfortable cheating on your girlfriend, then just go ahead and do it, rather than getting bogged down with how many men she has slept with before.
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