My married girlfriend is playing games with me
Carson writes, “I met this woman in Asia online in a chat room and over a period of few years we communicated through daily emails, chatting, telephone calls and texting. She was married but did not want to get a divorce from her abusive husband and moved to Bahrain to find work. She did not get a good job there and the manager was literally abusing her. I was not happy about the decision and I became angry. Later she told me that she came to Bahrain so that she could get a divorce and be with me. Most of the time she was reluctant to show her face on web-cam. She was very conscious about her mature age and beauty. She was also hiding our relationship from everyone, since other people will think this relationship as ‘wrong’. In 2008 we planned a rendezvous in Bahrain. But because of problems coordinating our schedules I could not go there. Then she stopped communicating with me. She even told me to leave her alone because she did not think that our marriage was possible, that I was too young for her, and that I would be better off with a younger woman. I think she was playing games with me. In September 2009 I told her I don’t want anything, I just wanted to meet her. She told yes. In the meantime her husband and others found out about our online relationship and started harassing her for cheating. This month I am going to Bahrain without knowing her contact details other than her email address that I have used all this time. I hope we will have a lovely meeting and my love will succeed.”
It is just a crush
While I admire your devotion to her and the commitment to meet with her to convince her to marry you, based on all the background you provided, it appears to be a futile exercise. Going to a country that you will be a tourist with no understanding of local language, I am not sure how successful you will be in able to track her down. Plus, as you have already found out, she is a compulsive liar, is unlikely to get a divorce, may not like the idea of having to leave Bahrain, and has never really shown any desire to marry you. On the contrary, she wants you to leave her alone.
This woman has a lot of problems and even if you were able to meet her, I very much doubt it will be a pleasant experience for you or that she will happily embrace your ideas and marry you. She might even consider you a stalker.
Find a drama-free woman
Therefore, if you want to take my advice, I strongly suggest that you abandon the idea of trying to find her in Bahrain and simply forget about her. It maybe hard for you initially but eventually you will be able to move on and find love with another woman who is drama-free. At this point it might seem impossible to you that you will be able to love another woman again, but trust me, almost everyone does. There are a lot of wonderful women on the planet and I am sure one of them will find you as a loving man who is committed and will take care of her like a princess.
The time, money, and emotions that you have invested in this woman has been a waste and if you invest it in another woman, you may find everlasting happiness.
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