Carla is a 27 year old who broke up with her boyfriend when he showed reluctance to a commitment. She now regrets the breakup and wants him back. “To my disappointment, he fell in love with his high school sweetheart almost immediately after our breakup. Is there any way for me to get my ex back?” she asks.
We all make mistakes and it seems that you are recognizing your mistake. If you had said sorry to him immediately, I am sure that he would have forgiven you and everything would have been just fine. The problem now is that he is already in love with another girl. You can still try but be prepared for disappointment.
This is how you can do it. Try to contact him and say that you will like to have a cup of coffee with him. If he says No then you know that he is simply not interested in even meeting you, let alone dating you again. However, if he agrees, meet with him and find out how he is doing. If you realize that he is madly in love with the other girl, well, finish your coffee, and politely say that you just wanted to say hello and that’s it. However, if you think that he is not so serious about the other girl, hint that you enjoyed your relationship with him and are sorry that it ended. You can also say that you are sorry for what you said because it was not the right thing to say. You hope that he will forgive you. End it there and see what happens. Do not suggest that you get back together. If you hear back from him (or if he says that he too has been thinking the same), you guys can work to revive your relationship. If not, it is best to move on rather than dwell on him. You can find a good man easily if you look hard enough.