Steve writes, “Well, I am falling in love with an Asian girl who is on the other side of the world. We want to be together, but we have to wait for 3-4 years. We’re getting too antsy. I don’t know what to do?”
It is not easy to have a long distance relationship, especially at the other end of the world. What I know is that if your feelings for each other are genuine, 3-4 years is not a long time, especially if you stay in touch regularly, using all the technology. Also make an effort to meet whenever possible.
Secondly, this is important, trust her. That is the only way to maintain your sanity and let her live in peace. If she does not answer an email or phone right away do not just assume that she is with another guy. Give her privacy and freedom and hopefully it will work out great.