Kate Hudson. Harper's Bazaar

Dating ain't easy. All the good guys are already gone and no decent woman wants to date a loser. It is especially hard if you are a single mom. You are probably somewhat old, have child(ren) to take care of so that you can't always invite him over or be late or realize that your child is sick just before a hot date.

Kate Hudson, who divorced Chris Robinson (and has a child with him), dated and broke up with Owen Wilson, is finding out that even if you are just 28, pretty, and successful, you can't really find a man. She tells Harper's Bazaar that "You realize after you have had children that you'll never love anything more than your child." I am not sure that it is a reasonable point. Of course you love your child(ren) but women in their marriage still love their husbands. Love for a child and for your partner are different; one can't substitute the other.

She is a great ex-wife too. About her ex-husband, she says, "He's my first huge love. I spent seven years with Chris. I was 20 when I met him. We still talk everyday. He still cracks me up. And Ryder (their child together) feels that."