One wedding that I wouldn't be writing about is that of Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubrey. Not that she is opposed to marriage - she was married twice - she just doesn't want to marry for the third time. Even though Halle Berry is the mother of Gabriel Aubrey's child, she tells Oprah she is not going through the ritual of a wedding.

"What Gabriel and I have decided is we will just redefine marriage for ourselves. You know, that paper isn't worth anything to me anymore," she said on television. "I don't want to do that again ... I feel more married in a way than I ever have in two marriages before."

"We view life the same way," says Berry. "He really understands the spiritual connection is so much more important than the paper and the pomp and the circumstance and the ceremony. And that feels important to us." That is exactly what Oprah has done and I recently heard Eva Mendes say the same. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are also believers of this idea.