Nicole
asks, "Why do
guys break up with their girlfriends when they are
pregnant? Maybe it is because they are not ready to
be dads but I still do not get it."
As you can very well guess, a
pregnant girlfriend (especially when the
pregnancy was an accident either because the
birth control pill was not used or it did not work)
means that she may now want to
marry
the man because he is
going to be a dad, and that scares the hell out of
guys who just want to have sex and
do not want any commitment. They also hope that by
dumping
a
pregnant girlfriend they can
move on
and find
another girl.My advice to
women in such a situation is to not
accept the breakup and
cry over a broken heart. Now that they have a
child together, it is better to push him to
resolve the differences because a child needs both
parents for
normal development. |
