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When
a mature woman loves a younger man...
Mature
women
are increasingly ready to date and marry younger man and society better accept
it!
By Pierre Coda
We
are discussing situations in which a mature woman falls in
love with a younger man. We have already discussed how
mature women dating younger men is now a trend. We also
discussed what it means to be attracted to
someone younger. We are now discussing if you
should lie about your age and what are its
implications. And finally,
what can a mature woman do
to look younger?(Related:
When do older
women want younger men)
Lying about your age
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I have never advised my clients to lie about their age if they are interested in a meaningful relationship. It is
a gray area if you are interested in a fling or a short-term romance
but if you want a solid relationship, it better be based on truth, at least about things that are impossible to hide. In an excellent article about lying about
your age in your personal
ad, the suggestion given is never to lie about your age in the first place since you attract the wrong kind of people and when they
do find out they are going to bolt wondering how many other lies are there in your
profile/statements. In Nancy's case, however, the risk is small. She has known him for a while and it seems that age was never an issue with her boyfriend. If it were, he would have never entered into a relationship with her. So my advice to Nancy is that it is better to tell him
the exact age when she convinces him to introduce her to his friends and family. It would be perfectly fine to introduce her as someone in her 30s but it will be best if the boyfriend knows the exact age. |
 How not to be your age?
I want to discuss this right here because Nancy's
case is a commendable story, and secondly, if mature women today need to find a
man they might need to look at younger men too. I like the approach taken by
the doctors at Truestarhealth to look and feel younger. They look at five dimensions: nutrition, exercise,
sleep, attitude, and
mineral
supplements. I believe that these five are critical in helping us stay young and we should follow in the footsteps of Nancy in
start working on them right away. But I also want to talk to those women and men that have neglected their health for years/decades that they already look
much older than their real age. They need to have two parallel strategies. One, stop getting any older by paying attention to the five dimensions highlighted by
Truestarhealth. At the same time, they need to reverse some of the damage
(You can slow down aging!) caused to their body, particularly the
skin (Anti-wrinkle solutions), which shows the most visible signs of aging.
And of course, there is Botox
to remove wrinkles.
Oh, I almost forgot about 'behaving' younger, which Nancy seems to do well too.
While once you look and feel young, it is easy to behave young but more importantly you need to surround yourself with 'young'
stuff and people. I have found that working with kids or high school students or even college students is a great way to behave like a young person. It is also important to wear trendy clothes rather than hanging on to those beautiful, expensive dresses that you bought 20 years ago but still wear them, well, because they are expensive and you bought them with so much
pride at that time. Maybe it is time to donate them to charity or to auction them off
on eBay to get some cash to buy something cool. You will notice how young you will feel once you shop
for some trendy clothes and accessories. Related: Anti-aging solutions to achieve longevity
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are the new 30s
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after 30
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a man after 30
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girlfriend is 20 years older than me
Cheating with
a younger man |
