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Seducing
men
Lingerie
helps with seduction of men
As
part of our ongoing research, what we are finding is that despite the efforts of
men to do a better job at seducing and making
love, they still do a pathetic job
in most cases. When will men start
to get a bit imaginative? That is
the outcome of our online survey and group discussion organized by us.
So what is the consensus among women:
take charge. What it means is that when it comes to the affairs of the
bedroom, women have to facilitate the seduction process
so that it is entertaining and pleasurable at the same time. (Related:
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lingerie?)
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 Men
are more visual than us and what I mean is that they respond more effectively
and quickly to visual stimuli while we are more emotional in our approach to
life. We have always known that.
While we will be talking to them, their eyes are glued someplace else –
whether it be the television or a pretty woman passing by.
It does not matter how many nice things we say to them, it is only when
they look at us they get interested. Particularly
if we wear something exciting. Totally
opposite of how we are. For us,
visual stimulation is one of several components that comprise our romance world. More importantly, we value the whole experience.
(Related article: Hypnotic
seduction)
So
the things the way they are, there is little we can do about it.
The consensus in the group that helped us formulate our recommendation is
that we need to provide adequate visual stimulation to men.
And remember that there are very subtle ways to do it by leveraging an
item of lingerie.
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 Surprise him
More
often than not, men are so absorbed in their own world that they hardly pay
attention to us. For instance, I
learned that newspaper, magazines, television (particularly if a sports
program is on), and food tend to attract more attention until I surprise him.
In our research, we all agreed that one of the best ways to
catch his
attention is to catch him totally by surprise.
And how do you do that? Well,
for example, you could take a nice, long bath with
aromatherapy oils and soaps
and then simply dress up in a teddy and cover yourself with a silk
robe. When
he comes home, it is very likely that he will not think much about your secret
until you accidentally give him a glimpse of your teddy.
Tease him a bit and just pretend as if it is nothing that would interest
him. This is likely to create even
more curiosity (if he is a total moron and gives up at this time, then do not
give up; offer to give him a
peek just of the top part anyway) and at that point tell him
to wait till bedtime but give him a peek of the top part.
Ask him to go relax in the bedroom after dinner and then when you walk
in, perform a slow dance for him. Open
the robe and then let him see that you are wearing a teddy but make
sure that you cover everything else till he begs you to let him have a look.
Jeanne Tripplehorn, in a
naughty tone, said in an interview, "Never
underestimate the power of
lingerie.." (Related:
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Shock him
This
will be even more fun if your partner is the ‘conservative’ type.
Of course, you might want to challenge him based on what his tolerance
level is but try to push his limits a little bit.
The one we selected from our group involves calling him at work and
suggesting that you eat out since you are too tired to cook, as you will be late
at work. Use the time that you get
to
go home and change. The
suggested outfit is a sheer
top.
Put on a jacket so that he will not know what you are up to.
Once you are seated in the restaurant, open your jacket to give him a
peek. In case he does not order you
to go home (or actually ends up complimenting you), take it off completely and
let the show begin. Most men are
highly turned on when their partner can literally ‘stop the traffic.’
The higher the shock-factor for him, the more intense the
seduction.
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of a woman who tries this trick)
Scandalize him
This
one came from the really adventurous women in the group.
Do not attempt it if your partner does not have an appetite for
controversy (a good way to judge him to find out if he ever reads tabloids).
The strategy is to make you literally the “talk-of-the-town.” Whether it is a poolside party or a get-together of friends or a family
gathering, you can simply dress in an outfit that will make all the men drool
over you and the women talk behind your back.
The easiest way to do is to use an item of lingerie as outerwear.
A teddy used with a mini
skirt or pants, a
camisole with jeans, or a
bodysuit
with slacks – they all work and will make you the star attraction.
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