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How
to be attractive to men?
Tips
from a woman who goes on a quest to find a man of her dreams after
she is 30
By Nancy Ryder
If you ever saw me on a street, you might be tempted to look at me more than once, but beyond that you would not bother. I have been told that I am an
attractive woman but then there are millions of attractive women in the world. In fact, many a times in my life, I have seen gorgeous people on the street and wondered if they should not be
models or movie stars. While people go crazy about celebrities they forget to appreciate the beautiful people around them. I have had some of my days turned into happy ones just because I took the time to appreciate a beautiful person that I ran into in a public place. I never could find out who they were but it gave me tremendous pleasure to feast my eyes on them.
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I always considered myself to be an ordinary person but it was difficult for me to be just happy with that admission. I wanted to do extraordinary things. While I was not particularly good at solving complex differential equations or developing game theory models, I always thought a lot and I did not think like everyone I knew. I thought about world peace, human suffering, man-woman relationships,
meaning of
life, and above all, love. My
lifestyle allowed me to think a lot and since most people around me would not understand when I opened my mouth, I decided to write. Whenever I found the time from thinking, I wrote. Thus, my diary became the other
Nancy. I constantly talked to her, shared my stories, argued constantly, and then just went on with my life. She became my best friend. |
 My life was rather ordinary too. Like millions of young women in the mid-west, I lived in a relatively small town in Michigan. While the large cities fascinated me, I was still not a part of it. Like any other country in the world, Detroit or Chicago do not represent vast majority of American cities. Many of us were virtually lost when we traveled to a large city. The streets in these cities were packed, the traffic was horrible, the people were less polite, and the pace of life was overwhelming. I was far more comfortable in a small town where you could virtually hear the whispering of the wind in my backyard. This does not mean that large cities did not fascinate me. Seeing the people in Chicago, for instance, I was disappointed with my life. I realized that I was just not interacting with enough people. I was missing out on an opportunity in my life to get to know people beyond my immediate neighbors.
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As a flight attendant I often traveled to exotic locations or metropolitan areas but I rarely ventured out of my airport hotel. I guess I was too tired by the time I checked in and checking out a large city was intimidating for a
single (and pretty) woman in her 30s.
But one thing that I never compromised on was my
inner and outer
beauty. I always wanted to look attractive and made sure that I did. There was nothing that I did not do look pretty all my waking hours even if I was alone. I
exercised regularly even if it meant that I was the only one in the hotel gym at 11 PM. I don’t even know what junk food tastes like. And I have the largest
wardrobe in my town. You name it; I have it. All the way from
thongs to expensive
formal
gowns, my home is full of clothing, shoes,
accessories, and of course, everything that I needed for my elaborate
makeup.
I always make an effort to be attractive and while it takes
some effort it is not as difficult as it might appear.
In fact I have seen so many American woman who seem to care so
little about how they look and let me say this - they look
plain and simple ugly.
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