writes, "I'm 33 and had a
relationship with a 61 year old man. We had been
dating for 9 years. About 5 years ago I told him that I
get married and
start a family but he was just giving me excuses. At
that point I
dumped him and met someone else. But now my
wants me back and he is
ready to marry me because he doesn't want to lose
me. I love him too. Now I'm
confused. I need some advice please."
question that you have to ask him is why he
to marry you now and why did he change his mind. If
he has a good, convincing answer then I think it will be
nice for you to
him because as you said that you love him too and have
had a 9-year old relationship.
Anyone has a right to
change his mind. Maybe he did not want to
married at that age but when he realized that the
cost of not doing so is to lose you, he might have been
forced to think again.
a family, I hope that you realize that at his age,
he may not be as excited as you are of
becoming a father. Personally, I also do
not approve of such
older dads as they might be responsible for unhealthy
babies and they aren't really around long enough to
be good fathers.