| Samantha
writes, "I am
single woman who fell deeply in love with a married man.
I
loved him with all my heart and gave him everything
that I could. I enjoyed his company and it was a joy to
see him
happy and smiling. To my utter shock and horror, he
recently told me that his feelings were
purely
carnal and with the passage of time, he is now
interested in
being just
friends. Since we started to do this (I really had
no choice) he remains very quiet and hardly writes even
a line in the emails. What can I do to
keep him happy and make him understand that
I
love him from the bottom of my heart and still
miss him and want him to
be in touch with me? Please help me."
Married men cheat to satisfy their
desires that their wives don't
I
think this man took advantage of your emotions and you
were too
gullible to believe everything he said. While you
fell in love with him he was merely
in love with your body and not your heart. Now that
he had to confess that his
feelings
were purely sexual, he
feels guilty and bad that he misled you and
played
with your emotions. That simply means he is
embarrassed. By saying that he only wants to
be
friends, he is either suggesting that he wants to
end the relationship with you or has
found another woman with whom he now has a
physical relationship. He is hoping that by ignoring
you, you will simply stop contacting him and
move on.
This man played with your heart and he doesn't care
about you. I would suggest that it is best for you to
move on without him. He is
married and is probably already with a new lover
like you. |
