 I
was just reading your article about the
right age to marry. I agree and disagree with
it. I agree because it is true, if you are trying to
live off a fantasy of love, then you are screwed. You
will
ruin your relationship with frustration, and other
emotions of not doing all the things you dreamed of.
I also disagree with the ages you stated though. I
disagree because if you have the love and feelings for
the other, but you also have
goals set,
plans made, and solutions, then I think you can do
it. When I say plan, I don't just mean "what you think
you will do" but, as in you have
been to college, you are
starting
you career. You should know the person for a long
time.
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I'm only 16. My boyfriend is
a year and a half younger then me. It's only
been about 3.5 months. We already feel
prefect for each other and don't want it to
end. I've known him for about 9.5 months. If we
stay together and I finish college at age 23, he
would still be in university (we both know what
we want for
careers and are working toward them). |
We both agreed that if it did come to
marriage, it should be a bit later. We should be
waiting for one of us to be about done with college
before we
got married. If you can live through that, get
through high-school together, college and all that,
living
together, then I personally think if you can get
through that and still
be happy and in love as you first began, you are
set.
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