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Gaijin views on Japanese girls

An American husband's views

Summary:  In my questionnaire to help me develop a better understanding of Japanese girls, I got some interesting responses from an American guy, who says that "When I was single and in the military, I had a great old first sergeant who advised me in this way..."If you really want to be happy for the rest of your life get a Spanish house and a Japanese wife". Part of a song I guess. I found this advice peculiar because he had a German wife. Anyway, I just recently remembered what he said....it's been twenty years in this Spanish house, twenty-seven years since I had a beautiful daughter with my Japanese wife of thirty years."
1. Is casual romance on the mind of a Japanese woman when she goes overseas or meets foreign men?  Do Japanese women feel and behave differently in the company of non-Japanese?

No.....Just like any other healthy woman, there as to be a connection that grows into a relationship before sex. If she gives it up without getting to know you, she's mental. Yes, Japanese are fascinated with meeting foreigners, especially Americans. However, if you mistreat or disrespect them they can be as bitchy or vicious as any other women.

2. Why do Japanese women have sex with foreigners? Is it to check out how other races do it? Is it because many women think that Japanese men do not do a great job in bed? Is it because they think that all non-Japanese have big organs? Or is it just curiosity?  Or is it because they can show off the gajin boyfriend as a trophy?

Typical concern for a young Japanese? Japanese women have sex with foreigners for the same reason Japanese men do. They are attracted, maybe curious in the beginning, and maybe the relationship has advanced to that point. I don't think the big organ or trophy thing is an issue.

3. What are their expectations from a non-Japanese man? What features they look for in a man when they want to have a relationship?

Their expectation depends on what they want in a relationship. It might be money, prestige, a lifestyle; same as a Japanese man.

4. Why do Japanese women prefer Caucasians over Asians and Africans?

It has nothing to do with race. It has to do with knowledge of African American males beyond the Caucasian stereotype. I have noticed that some Japanese women who date and marry White men have the same racist attitudes that their white partner will have. However, Japanese women who are married to a black man are totally devoted regardless of the attitude of their family or friends. I find the latter women fascinating.

5. There are dozens of stories that we have heard when a Japanese woman will have a steamy romance with a foreign man and then simply disappear without a word about her whereabouts.  Why do they do it?  Why can’t they have a proper breakup?  In some cases why do Japanese women breakup but also buy expensive gifts for their lovers at the time of breakup?

I had a Japanese girlfriend who bought me nice gifts. I broke up with here because I caught her cheating. I think these questions are based on myths. Japanese women are not fools are as easy as you think.

6. Many men think that Japanese women have fewer inhibitions - they are more likely to try new things and do almost anything in the bedroom.  Is it true?  If so, why is that? 

Again, just like any other women, if you have a meaningful relationship with her, she will be willing to please you if it is within her comfort zone.

7. Many men claim that Japanese women are the best when it comes to oral. Why are Japanese women so good and open to oral? Why are Japanese women more likely to swallow?

I always thought that white women were that best in that department. You have swallowed the whole Geisha thing hook line and sinker.

8. Why do Japanese women talk so freely about private matters? Other women might be very offended when you ask them what underwear she is wearing or what kind of private life she has, unless you are really intimate with them - while Japanese women are more open minded about such questions?

That is a generalization that is just not true. Some Japanese women are open, most are very private and shy. Japanese women don't hold liquor very well, so in a bar you might get away with a question like that.

9. Why do Japanese women seem so open minded about getting physical with men much older than them?

Not true as a rule.....you might have seen a couple of gold-diggers.

10.  Why do Japanese women insist on taking showers/baths after intimacy?

Isn't that true of any women...I wouldn't want to have sex with one who didn't clean up afterwards.

11.  While Japanese women are more open minded about intimacy and are likely to be active at an early age, how is that so many Japanese women in their 20s and 30s are virgins despite having boyfriends for many years?

Simple.....self discipline... There is nothing wrong with abstinence if it is their choice.

12.  It is well known that many Japanese couple have practically no intimacy after children are born and as they get into their 40s. How do these women satisfy themselves? Young lovers? Or nothing?

Sounds like any other couple to me. There are always exceptions. I believe....out of all nationalities, Japanese women make the most faithful wives.

 
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